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Personal and Professional Development

 

Suggestions for what to include in an agreement:

Time

Agree when the mentor relationship will end: three months would be a reasonable length of time but it could be shorter or longer.  You can extend the relationship if you both wish or just continue as friends.  Agree how often and how long you'll meet: e.g. once or twice a week over coffee or lunch.

Flexibility

Agree whether it is ok to be phoned up or called on if the person you are mentoring has a particular question. Since part of the role is to reassure, it is a good idea to agree to this initially and re-negotiate if it gets out of hand.

Confidentiality

Agree that you will not disclose to anyone else what you discuss with the person you are mentoring unless with their agreement. Agree how you will describe the partnership to others, including the head of institution if they ask.

Boundaries

You are not responsible for the person you are mentoring, nor for their formal induction. But you can answer questions, fill in the gaps, allay anxieties and give friendly guidance. It isn't your job to fill in all the gaps left by the formal induction process.

Review and evaluation

At the end of the arrangement, look back over the time and list what went well and what you might do differently another time. Comment constructively on each other's handling of the role. Tell the head of institution or whoever recruited you to the role if you've enjoyed it and if you would be prepared to do it again. Tell PPD if you've enjoyed it, or if you haven't enjoyed it and would like to talk it over.  Give any tips for future mentors or people being mentored.

If you think something is going wrong

Use your judgement. Encourage the person you're mentoring to tackle it if that's at all possible. Remember you aren't their advocate. But if you think someone's physical or emotional health or safety may be at risk, you have a duty to draw the attention of that person to the possible risk and to take reasonable steps to avert it. If you think something needs to be brought to the attention of an authority, your union may be able to do it anonymously. If you are going to someone else, do discuss the matter with the person you are mentoring first and tell them what you are thinking of doing. Remember that in law you may be considered to be the University's ear: if you have heard of something on which the University ought to take action, like harassment, the University may be deemed to have heard it too; if then the University doesn't act, it may be considered to have deliberately ignored a problem because you have not fulfilled your responsibility to disclose it or remedy it.